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About Me
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with almost two decades of experience in social work and therapy, licensed in Illinois and Colorado. I received my post-graduate training in Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan (2016-18). My work is deeply informed by my experiences as a therapist, faculty member, friend, partner, former partner, parent/co-parent, social worker, and cancer survivor. As someone deeply moved by and invested in relationships, I am grateful for the chance to cherish both my work and the individuals I support through it. (I recognize the economic and educational privilege of this statement - I see the impact of professional gatekeeping, and the issue of marginalizing folks who have instinctual, community, or ancestral wisdom. I believe white, institutionally-educated therapists have a responsibility to address appropriation, promote the voices and wisdom of marginalized communities, and support inclusive and expansive healing modalities outside of our own.)
Why Work With Me?
My passion is to support individuals whose identities and relationships defy conventional norms. These clients often navigate multiple subcultures, adopt various roles for self-protection, and experience significant burnout and trauma from constant transitions between their communities of origin, workplaces, and current relationships. I am dedicated to helping you find well-being amidst these challenges. This includes mindful healing from trauma, but also moving beyond, to identify and assertively pursue relationship and life ideals, even if they don't have a pre-set mold or template in our society.
Couples Therapy
As a relationship therapist, I am warm and highly involved in the therapeutic process. Many couples seek my help and refer others because of my attentiveness and direct approach, especially related to interrupting harmful patterns, getting out of stuckness, or de-escalating sessions. As a seasoned therapist, I understand the importance of kind directness. That said, I recognize that I can make mistakes, and I’m not afraid to apologize during or after a session. Modeling repair and reconnection can be immensely healing for our attachment systems.
Individual Therapy
As a queer therapist, I understand the complexities of building a life and relationships without traditional templates. I am committed to helping you cultivate a life brimming with joy and genuine connections that resonate with your heart, mind, and body. My approach is warm, engaged, and non-judgmental as I assist you in navigating your unique journey. Together, we will work on mindful healing from trauma, identifying your authentic values and assertively pursuing your personal and relational intentions. Whether you are redefining your identity, seeking deeper connection, or striving for clarity, I will support you in aligning your life with your core values and dreams.
Therapy Modality
I draw from a variety of methods and practices, including modalities outside of the therapy realm. Some favorites of mine are Internal Family Systems, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), feminist (recognizing the harmful impact of gender oppression on all gender identities), Developmental Model of Couples’ Therapy (specifically trained through a program for LGBTQ+ therapists working with all clients), narrative techniques, Wheel of Consent work, and anti-oppressive practices. I regularly seek supervision, teach MSW and post-grad sex therapy students, and supervise other therapists, attend trainings, and read the newest books in the field (see our resource list for some favorites!).
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Court Bilbrey, LCSW
Founder of Expansive Therapy Collective
Sex , Relationship, and Discernment Therapist
Kia Blum, Therapist Trainee
Sex, Relationship, and Trauma Therapist
About Me
With extensive experience in organizational leadership, sexual health, and social work, I bring a rich background in non-clinical leadership and advocacy to my role as a therapy trainee. My work is profoundly influenced by my past experiences in the non-profit and political sectors. My approach with clients is grounded in my understanding of complex systemic issues and my background in navigating large systems to drive change. I believe that individuals are the experts in their own lives, and I am here to support and empower their journeys. As a clinician, I aim to incorporate this insight and experience to meet the needs of my clients, acknowledging that we do not exist in isolation.
I hold a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from St. Mary's College of Maryland, and I am currently pursuing my Master of Social Work at the University of Denver. Additionally, I have completed the Sexual Health Certificate Program from the University of Michigan which provides over 150 hours of continuing education focused on sexuality, relationships, and cultural competency.
Why Work With Me?
My approach is deeply rooted in creating a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their identities and experiences. As a queer therapist, I strive to provide LGBTQIA+ affirming care, creating an environment where clients feel seen, heard, and validated. I believe in the importance of cultural humility and am committed to always learning and adapting my approach to be responsive to the diverse needs of my clients. I am passionate about supporting individuals facing challenges around sex, sexual health, anxiety, depression, and substance use disorders. I can help clients navigate life transitions, such as relationship changes and enhancing their intimate relationships. I also have experience working with sex workers, offering informed and respectful care that acknowledges their experiences – whether empowering and liberating, neutral, or harmful. By integrating clinical expertise with a macro-level understanding of systemic complexities, I strive to drive positive change both within and beyond the therapy room.
Therapy Style
My main modality is culturally sensitive therapy with a harm reduction lens. I utilize a relational and integrated approach, drawing on various therapeutic modalities such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Person-Centered Therapy, Strength-Based Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). I always aim to provide affirming care, fostering an inclusive environment that challenges biases and encourages transformative change.